Forged in Fire, Born To Be Badass

Discovering who I am meant to be was a journey forged in fire, shaped by the trials that life threw my way. The "What If" game, dwelling on the past, has no winners. Time spent on fruitless activities cannot be recovered.

From my earliest memories in a playpen, my mother was my happiness, my world. However, by the age of four, my innocence had been shattered by the terrifying reality of domestic violence, sexual, physical and mental abuse, and broken trust at the hands of my father.

I vividly recall the day my mother summoned her last bit of courage to leave him. The trepidation in her eyes turned to fear as he violently confronted her. Witnessing the brutality, frozen in fear, I learned that my father, who should have been a source of love and protection, was capable of unspeakable cruelty.

In that moment, I discovered strength. My mother, despite being brutally attacked, prioritized our safety. She screamed at me to take my sister and run to the neighbors, teaching me the power of a mother's love and determination.

This marked the beginning of my journey, forged in fire from an early age. These harrowing experiences have shaped me into a bold, outspoken, protective, and determined individual. I am a fighter, an advocate for those in need, unafraid to speak my truth and stand up to bullies. I am a chaotic hurricane, ready to defend those I love.

Embrace life's adversities; they contain lessons that make you stronger. My strength is a product of facing and learning from these adversities. I've been forged in fire, and I embrace my identity as someone Born To Be Badass.

So were you!

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please seek help from local authorities or a support organization.

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